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Good Morning! I hope all is well in your world.  I just viewed a wonderful video and wanted to share!

Please, feel free to add a comment and share your thoughts, too!  Have a wonderful day and a fantastic week!  Continued Blessings!

Good Morning Everyone!  Today, I woke up despite a few aches and pains and declared today, another day of blessing!  Each one of us is favored with the gift of LIFE.  It’s God’s present to us.

Declare how you will spend your gift.  Time is of the essence, and the gift comes with no refunds or returns.  You are entrusted with 24 hours called the PRESENT.  Use your gift everyday.  Let someone know that God is the light, amazing, loving, fantastic, awesome, and always there!  We all have to claim our power, proclaim we are his child, and live in his light and witness his anointing.

Nothing is too hard, and he is always there if we need him and call on him.  Let’s show God through our actions.  Let’s be intentional and strive to put love in our plan everyday!  We all have something to offer; even if it is a smile or a compliment.  Be the light wherever you go; in any season of your life.  Trust him and know, all is well.

Yesterday, at church, I realized I let my fire go out when my mother passed.  I was grieving, angry and lost.  Dorothy Mae Roberson was so much to me, and now I truly realize she came and completed her earthly assignment.  Now, it’s my turn for her legacy of being a God fearing witness to continue.  I was required to get my fire back, and get back to doing God’s work; wherever I go.  Love is a action word and an opportunity to magnify God and convey how awesome he is.  If we trust and seek him, do his will, God will always provide and give us beauty for our actions.  So, time for me to put all those lessons into actions and let the beauty of my mother’s legacy shine through me. For all trees are known by the fruit it produces.

Let’s figure out each day, how we can make a difference, mentor, volunteer, help tutor, take a senior grocery shopping, be a foster parent, share your talents! So, well done mom and great fruit!  The seeds you planted in me are sprouting.  Your light shines brightly Dorothy Mae Roberson, RIH until we meet again on the other side! 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

Good Morning! I hope all is well in your world.  I just viewed a wonderful video and wanted to share!

Please, feel free to add a comment and share your thoughts, too!  Have a wonderful day and a fantastic week!  Continued Blessings!

The year was 2015, New Year’s Eve, and I remember questioning my purpose, value and worth.  It was also my birthday, and I spent most of the day reflecting, hurt and disappointed.  My birthday falls on the last day of the year, and my biggest issue was adjusting to the fact my mother would not be calling from heaven to say, “Happy Birthday!”  She was one of the few people who understood me. No long explanation…just a look or glance, and she knew exactly what I needed.

My mother was my prayer partner, friend, counselor, nurse, doctor, business owner, cheerleader, driver, encourager, human Bible and wonderful cook.  It took all thoses years to really get the concept: WE ARE ALL ON BORROWED TIME.  No longer will there be days of coming home to precious birthday cards, cake or ice cream.  And so, I tried to find my value and worth by purchasing some extremely expensive shoes.  It felt awesome when they arrived in the mail. As a matter of fact, I purchased more. Then, I tried on the first pair, and quickly discovered, the shoes did not serve me well.  My husband and I, attended a gala fundraiser, and I had to hold on to him for dear life.  I hastily learned, five and six inch heels are downright unbearable, and if I exceeded 5 minutes my toes would soon blister up in heat.  Hence, I made a decison. I finally accepted that my gorgeous shoes are not comfortable on Sharon’s feet, they had to GO. As a result, I truly understand the principle, anything that does not serve you good, release it, and let it GO.  I’m listing them, and using the money to BLESS someone else in need. Time has taught me, the true value is not what shoes I’m wearing, it’s WHO is wearing the shoes. When we understand whole heartedly, that we are God’s children.  We will understand our purpose, worth and value, which comes from God in Heaven– never things!   I’ve learned, when I follow after God/ Lord, have a servant heart, think about what I can give, oppose to what I can get.  The Lord/God always provides.  We are all agents assigned to ensure someone knows him through our light/actions/works– not our shoes. If we love him, then everyone should be able to know; because our actions will paint a clear story. Love is a verb, something you do and not just say.  Anything you love, you spend time, money, resources and attention to.  Love goes the distance, and isn’t there when it is convenient.  People often get love and like confused. Like never goes the distance–no real substance or benefits.

In conclusion, we all should strive to be whole, happy, and balanced. Be still, and know that God is always in control.  Anything that doesn’t serve you usefully, release it! Love is a verb and your actions verify your words.  Always walk in agreement.  Thank you for visiting my page and have an awesome day!🌺🌺🌺

Happy Thankful, Thursday! Everyday is a gift and yesterday reminded me of my purpose here on earth– to serve. My prayers have changed to: Lord how can I serve? and Who do you want me help?  No more prayers of  what can I get, but what can I GIVE.

I’m a medical case manager for terminally/ chronic ill patients. This week was challenging because my fifth member passed away. When you’re this type of manager, you see your clients monthly mostly, and they accept you like family. Sometimes even closer. I’ve learned they are the most kindest and humblest people; because they focus on things that really matter. They are an absolute delight to talk to and know. The world can definitely use more kindness, and everyday, I think we should strive to see someone smile, and let our light be so bright it eases the burdens of whomever comes our way. 
Let’s celebrate birthdays more, and express how we feel about our dear ones while they are here.
Yesterday, on my way to a home visit, I saw a SUV and car collide, and flip completely over right before me. I pulled over and thanked God for his timing for covering me, and I prayed for the families involved. In minutes, life can change!  So, let’s do things NOW, say I love you often, love through your actions, treat everyone the way you want to be treated, because each day counts  and our days are numbered.

Happy Thankful, Thursday! Everyday is a gift and yesterday reminded me of my purpose he gave me on earth– to serve. My prayers have changed to: Lord how can I serve? and Who do you want me help?  No more prayers of  what can I get, but what can I GIVE.

Previously, I was a medical case manager for terminally/ chronic ill patients. When you’re this type of manager, you see your clients monthly mostly, and they accept you like family. Sometimes even closer. I’ve learned they are the most kindest and humblest people; because they focus on things that really matter.

They are an absolute delight to talk to and know. The world can definitely use more kindness, and everyday, I think we should strive to see someone smile, and let our light be so bright it eases the burdens of whomever comes our way. 

Let’s celebrate birthdays more, and express how we feel about our dear ones while they are here. Several years ago, on my way to a home visit, I saw a SUV and car collide, and flip completely over right before me. I pulled over and thanked God for his timing for covering me, and I prayed for the families involved. In minutes, life can change!  So, let’s do things NOW, say I love you often, love through your actions, treat everyone the way you want to be treated, because each day counts  and our days are numbered.

“It is estimated that every 9 seconds, a woman is abused/ battered” – The Department of Justice, 1997

Today, I decided to put out into the universe some helpful information to help women or anybody in an abusive situation know they have options. No one ever deserves to be abused, and it’s never your fault. Hopefully, this information is useful and can possibly save a life or a family.

What is Domestic Violence?

Domestic violence is a pattern of physical or psychological abuse, threats, intimidation, isolation or economic coercion used by one person to exert power and control over another person in a dating, family or household relationship. Unfortunately, many people feel domestic violence is a private matter and often choose to suffer alone in silence. It is not, or it should not be a private matter, it is a CRIME!!!

Forms of Abuse:
Emotional Abuse: It harms a person’s self-image and self-esteem. It often causes shame or the individual to question themselves.

Tactics often used by abusers:

1. Repeated lies

2. Withholding affection

3. Extreme jealousy

4. Frequent insults and put-downs

5. Threats to the person’s safety or loved one’s safety

6. Controlling the person’s whereabouts, dress, how they eat, etc.

Physical Abuse:

It causes physical pain or injuries. It is any unwanted physical act.

Examples includes:

1. Hugging

2. Tickling

3. Kissing (if unwanted)

4. Kicking

5. Slapping

5. Attack with a knife, gun or any other object or weapon

6. Any physical unwanted act that is hurtful.

Sexual Abuse:

It is any kind of unwanted sexual advance or contact. This can include anything from unwelcomed touching, kissing, intercourse or unwanted sexual comments. Forced sexual intercourse between two people is always called “date rape” and unfortunately is too, too common and goes unreported.
How Can You Help?

1. Support

2. Be an Advocate

3. Support Causes that Support Survivors

4. Educate your loved ones of the problems that exist

5. Volunteer

6. Listen

National Domestic Violence Helpline

(800) 799-7233(800) 787-3224 TDD
Chicago Domestic Violence Helpline

(877) 863-6338(877) 884-0005The
National Sexual Assault Hotline

(800) 656-4673

Safety Planning:

Planning for safety during a violent act involves figuring out how to safely exit the home or finding a lower-risk place to go if an argument happens. As a result, a place with no exits, such as bathrooms or closets, or that provide access to weapons such as in kitchens or garages, are difficult and unlikely to provide safety. Individuals should make a list of people they might contact in an emergency or places they coud go to if they decide to leave.

Safety Plan Emergency Checklist & Other Important Items to Possibly Take When Leaving:

___ Identification for yourself

___ Driver license or state ID

___ Your birth certificate

___ Child/Children birth certificates

___ Social security card for yourself

___ Social security cards for your child/ children

___ Money

___ Lease, deed to house, Mortgage information

___ Wallet, checkbook, credit cards, ATM

___ Orders of Protection

___ Insurance cards & policies

___ Keys

___ Medications

___ Address book

___ Pictures

___ Shot & school records

___ Passport, work permits, green card

___ Divorce

___ Jewelry or whatever you feel is necessary

___ Journal of physical abuse with dates/time

Profile of an Abuser:

1. Jealous – Accuses victim of being unfaithful flirting

2. Isolate partner or limit contact with friends and family

3. Tries to control partner

4. Jekyll & Hyde personality, terrible alone & nice to others.

5. Threaten to hurt you or your children/ family

6. Very critical may say “No one will ever want you or you’re ugly”

7. Blames other all the times for their actions

8. Bad tempers

9. Threaten suicide or have made suicide attempts

Prayerfully, this information will be useful and informative.

“It is estimated that every 9 seconds, a woman is abused/ battered” – The Department of Justice, 1997

Today, I decided to put out into the universe some helpful information to help women or anybody in an abusive situation know they have options. No one ever deserves to be abused, and it’s never your fault. Hopefully, this information is useful and can possibly save a life or a family.

What is Domestic Violence???

Domestic violence is a pattern of physical or psychological abuse, threats, intimidation, isolation or economic coercion used by one person to exert power and control over another person in a dating, family or household relationship. Unfortunately, many people feel domestic violence is a private matter and often choose to suffer alone in silence. It is not, or it should not be a private matter, it is a CRIME!!!

Forms of Abuse:
Emotional Abuse: It harms a person’s self-image and self-esteem. It often causes shame or the individual to question themselves.

Tactics often used by abusers:

1. Repeated lies

2. Withholding affection

3. Extreme jealousy

4. Frequent insults and put-downs

5. Threats to the person’s safety or loved one’s safety

6. Controlling the person’s whereabouts, dress, how they eat, etc.

Physical Abuse:

It causes physical pain or injuries. It is any unwanted physical act.

Examples includes:

1. Hugging

2. Tickling

3. Kissing (if unwanted)

4. Kicking

5. Slapping

5. Attack with a knife, gun or any other object or weapon

6. Any physical unwanted act that is hurtful.

Sexual Abuse:

It is any kind of unwanted sexual advance or contact. This can include anything from unwelcomed touching, kissing, intercourse or unwanted sexual comments. Forced sexual intercourse between two people is always called “date rape” and unfortunately is too, too common and goes unreported.
How Can You Help?

1. Support

2. Be an Advocate

3. Support Causes that Support Survivors

4. Educate your loved ones of the problems that exist

5. Volunteer

6. Listen

National Domestic Violence Helpline

(800) 799-7233(800) 787-3224 TDD
Chicago Domestic Violence Helpline

(877) 863-6338(877) 884-0005The
National Sexual Assault Hotline

(800) 656-4673

Safety Planning:

Planning for safety during a violent act involves figuring out how to safely exit the home or finding a lower-risk place to go if an argument happens. As a result, a place with no exits, such as bathrooms or closets, or that provide access to weapons such as in kitchens or garages, are difficult and unlikely to provide safety. Individuals should make a list of people they might contact in an emergency or places they coud go to if they decide to leave.

Safety Plan Emergency Checklist & Other Important Items to Possibly Take When Leaving:

___ Identification for yourself

___ Driver license or state ID

___ Your birth certificate

___ Child/Children birth certificates

___ Social security card for yourself

___ Social security cards for your child/ children

___ Money

___ Lease, deed to house, Mortgage information

___ Wallet, checkbook, credit cards, ATM

___ Orders of Protection

___ Insurance cards & policies

___ Keys

___ Medications

___ Address book

___ Pictures

___ Shot & school records

___ Passport, work permits, green card

___ Divorce

___ Jewelry or whatever you feel is necessary

___ Journal of physical abuse with dates/time

Profile of an Abuser:

1. Jealous – Accuses victim of being unfaithful flirting

2. Isolate partner or limit contact with friends and family

3. Tries to control partner

4. Jekyll & Hyde personality, terrible alone & nice to others.

5. Threaten to hurt you or your children/ family

6. Very critical may say “No one will ever want you or you’re ugly”

7. Blames other all the times for their actions

8. Bad tempers

9. Threaten suicide or have made suicide attempts

Prayerfully, this information will be useful and informative.