Steps to Forgiveness and the Benefits

1. What is the definition of forgiveness? A conscious decision to release resentment or vengeance for an individual or a group regardless if they deserve it or not.  The process does not mean you are excusing, condoning the issues or forgetting.  However, you’re committed to your health and positively moving forward by all means necessary.Continue reading “Steps to Forgiveness and the Benefits”

A Closer Look – Valentine’s Day 2018 Edition: Mr. & Mrs. Nick & Latice Nicholson, 24 Years & Counting! 💕💕💕

Thanks Mr. & Mrs. Nicholson for the vision and creating Chi-Town Married Couples! I love the idea that you are supporting and building a rock solid community that celebrate healthy marriages and strengthen God ordain relationships. So excited you both agreed to complete this interview and share your wisdom on building Strong, Healthy, God CenteredContinue reading “A Closer Look – Valentine’s Day 2018 Edition: Mr. & Mrs. Nick & Latice Nicholson, 24 Years & Counting! 💕💕💕”

A Closer Look – February 2018, Featured Interview: Chicago’s Very Own, Art “Chatdaddy” Sims!

Almost 8 years ago, I had the extreme pleasure of meeting the legendary King of Chat! The one and only Chatdaddy! He agreed to assist myself with a fundraiser and relationship chat to benefit children and families involved with DCFS. Many moons later, he has conducted hundreds of relationships chats and interviewed almost everyone includingContinue reading “A Closer Look – February 2018, Featured Interview: Chicago’s Very Own, Art “Chatdaddy” Sims!”

A Closer Look – January 2018, Featured Interview: Khalid Scott, MSW, LCSW

1.  What is absolutely the best advice you have ever received and from who? My mother (Kathleen Scott)!  Mom said from day one (a lyric from the song from the Wiz “Ease on Down the Road….Don’t you carry an load!”) What she was saying was in life, which is going to challenge you, that youContinue reading “A Closer Look – January 2018, Featured Interview: Khalid Scott, MSW, LCSW”

Relationship Blues: Poor Decisions

I believe the biggest problem for men and women is poor decisions! Unfortunately, in my opinion too many people including men and women select partners or mates for ABSOLUTELY THE WRONG REASONS! Overall, I think women focus on finding stability too much and men focus on physical attractiveness too much. As a result, both usuallyContinue reading “Relationship Blues: Poor Decisions”

College Freshman 101: Date Rape & Safety!

Reflection This post is detailed and may be too descriptive for some. My hope is not to offend, but to share my previous challenges…a glimpse inside my head…maybe it sounds familiar. The funniest thing about obstacles and challenges is that they seem to always be delivered without an introduction or a warning. In 2009, IContinue reading “College Freshman 101: Date Rape & Safety!”

The Front Row: Staring You

Front Row Seat – Life is the ultimate theater so invite your audiences carefully. Not everyone is holy enough and healthy enough to have a FRONT ROW seat in our lives. There are some people in your life who need to be loved from a distance. It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you letContinue reading “The Front Row: Staring You”